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Name: Michelle Ruth Tong

Birthday: 3rd March

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To be a testimony of Christ and set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity (1 Tim. 4:12). Do whatever is true, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, whatever is excellent and praiseworthy to God (Phili 4:8).



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Friday 5 November 2004
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Has been cold here... I'm back in action to blog, to warm this place up. No updates from my tagboard as well as my entries. Hello? This blog is still here... Still writing something that I want to share. Continue to visit here ok?

Had been real busy lately with exams and some kids exam. Quite disppointing when you see all your effort seem to have gone to waste. Well, obviously I'm pretty affected by it. Probably, I am.

Here is something to share... Pretty long.. Be patient ya?

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If you're afraid to love a person because of friendship, you have two choices, either tell what you feel and let the love take place or hide the feelings under a friendship full of pretensions.

It's hard for two people to love each other when they live in two different worlds... but when these two worlds collide and become one, that's what you call magic!

Love can never be so beautiful without friendship... One leads to another and the process is irreversible... The best of lovers is the greatest of friends!!! I like you because you're my friend, and because you are my friend I care, and because I care, I love you. I don't love you because you are my friend; I love you because I do!

Sometimes I've asked myself, what would make me happy? To think that I have everything else, I get what I want... then I realized it was YOU, too bad 'cause it's you can't have... I can't choose who I'm gonna love, but I also can't just love who chooses to love me... And you can't blame me in choosing to love you as much as I can't blame you for not learning to love me.

I'm sorry if you can't love me the way you loved the one before me, so I'll let you go to find him/her and hope someday you'll see that the one true love you're looking for was the one who set you free...

"How can I say goodbye to someone I never had? Why do tears fall for someone who was never mine? Why is that I miss someone I was never with and I ask why I love someone who's love was never mine?"

Isn't it funny we're trying to catch the attention of the one we think we love; we hardly notice the one we're really looking for was just there. You don't notice them 'till they are in the arms of someone else... Food for thought, think of this.. Have you really cared for someone more than you expected? Have you ever tried to love him/her despite of all the pain? Will you keep on loving him/her as he/she whispers someone else's name? Will you???

It's better to lose your pride with someone you love rather than lose that someone you love with your useless pride. When you love someone, don't expect that person to love you back the same amount. One of you will be ahead, the other behind. It's either you catch up or the other waits. When you love, you must not accept anything in return, for if you do, you're not loving but Investing.

If you love, you must prepare to accept pain, for if you expect happiness, you're not loving but using... True love hears what is not spoken,and understands what is not explained, for love doesn't work in the mouth, nor the mind, but in the heart... Love is like standing on wet cement, the longer you stay the harder it is to leave... And you can never go without leaving your prints behind...

Don't love a person like a flower, because a flower dies in season. Love them like a river because a river flows forever... Love doesn't have to have a happy Ending, 'cause love doesn't have to end at all. Never be afraid to fall in love. It may hurt a lot, it may give you aches and pains, but if you don't follow your heart, in the end you will cry even more for not giving love a chance.

Love may leave your heart like shattered glass, but keep in mind that there's someone who'll be willing to endure the pain of picking up the pieces so you could be whole again" The cruelest thing a guy could do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall.

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In ur life there will be one person who loved u a lot and someone whom u loved a lot and another who will be with u for the rest of ur life. So to anyone out there, don't be sad if u ever lost someone close to ur heart, because that proves that he's/she's not the one who will be with u till the end. Maybe someday u will find the one who will love u as much as u love him/her. Just treat it as an experience, a fruitful one. I've just been through a pretty bad patch, getting myself into a cycle again and again. I thought it was the end of the world. I tired many things like avoiding, shutting off from everyone but don't worry, I didn't do anything silly.

I'm out of that wilderness, all willing to accept everyone back in my life, as friends. Move on in my life and all I can do is to have faith in God and just wait on Him. I've learnt to not just let go, but also to accept all decision(s) made. It's time to pick myself up and move on. I did it! Though at times, I thought I will never be... Thanks everyone who was there and still here to be with me.

Get out and find, but don't just find, be patient and wait. Be open and willing to just let people come in and out of your life. Some may leave footprints, others just a friend or if you are really lucky, you might find the one among these friends.

I've learnt an important lesson in my life. Have you? =)

posted by Michelle at 23:36:00

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