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Name: Michelle Ruth Tong

Birthday: 3rd March

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To be a testimony of Christ and set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity (1 Tim. 4:12). Do whatever is true, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, whatever is excellent and praiseworthy to God (Phili 4:8).



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Sunday 22 August 2004
*.* Love him? Then let him go... *.*

Something I've learnt over the past few days; if you truly love the person, and you do not want to stop him from doing things that he likes or being alone whenever he is free or he is the super busy type, and you are the one who is always hoping that he will keep you accompany whenever he is free and enjoy each other's company, then the more you should let him go. Let him free and do whatever he likes.

I don't mean to burn that bridge. In a relationship like this, it is so tough. Very very tough. You can't expect only one person to hang on to the relationship that it has to be meant for two person. Especially when you expect him to call you, he didn't, and all you could say to yourself is, "he is busy." Or when you expect something new or probably a surprise, it would probably be the opposite or the surprise you wanted.

Different people have different expectations. This is something which a couple has to compromise. People's attitude change, but will the heart change? That depends how much you truly love him.

What is love? How can it be define perfectly?
It simply says: The act of letting go of our own needs and insecurities in order to deeply care for the emotional, spiritual, physical and intellectual well-being of another person. It is not wanting anyone or anything to stop the ones we love from feeling free to be themselves, to find balance in their lives and to know that we love them without conditions.

Notice that it says here Emotional, Spiritual, Physical and Intellectual. It say everything of a human being has and not any one of these should be eliminated or forgotten and most important of all is to love them without conditions.

Love him, so let him go. Love him, so love him for his everything. Love him, then cherish him...

posted by Michelle at 18:58:00

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